Wow. Just wow. I could underline this entire wonderful and deeply insightful article. First, I am so sorry about your tragic loss at such a young age of your beloved husband. I question God every time something inexplicable like this happens. However, all we have to do is look at scripture, read about Jesus and his disciples, to see terrible things happening to good people.

But as you said, God is way more concerned with our spiritual life, our heart, than with our comfort in this world.