Wow, interesting dynamics going on in your marriage. Nothings a sure thing, so I guess the best thing to do is to accept another person's decision and then make our own. I got vaccinated. Some of my kids did and some didn't. But my nephew's wife got vaccinated, then had a reaction from the vaccine that has so far required to blood transfusions and she's got some kind of blood clot. She's still in the hospital.