Very interesting and well-presented, George. I remember once when my husband was advising a friend of his who felt like his wife was indifferent to him. My husband advised buying her flowers, paying more attention to her, etc. etc. The man found out later his wife was cheating with her boss, and she eventually left their family and ran off with them. Fortunately my husband’s friend is also happily married to someone else now. But my husband is now hesitant to give any advice without knowing all the facts.