There was a file because he had a file on everything. He always listed the pros and cons before making a decision. His thoughts definitely changed and there was a major shift in dynamics. Love happened and evaluations went down the tubes. We married with many differences unresolved, but through appreciation of differences and each other’s uniqueness, we were able to make a go of it. The first year was rocky, but after that we grew into a relationship that is strong, supportive and fun.