Thanks so much for your candid and thoughtful response, Gillian

I understand why you feel they way you do and I’ve been angry at plenty of Christians myself. I serve in a group at out church with my dear friend and his husband who have adopted 3 kids and I see how he’s been hurt. But I try always to look at Christ and his words, not at us imperfect people who they to follow him. He loves all of us so much and we so need to extend that love to each other. Those who are narrow minded are on a different stage of their journey. Unfortunately. But I do believe a lot of very service oriented and loving Christians are operating under the radar. They are doing their thing without much acknowledgement or attention