Probably most people will disagree, and I can see both sides. But like you, I don't believe I would opt for that battle.

I've got a friend in her seventies going through stage 4 pancreatic cancer, and they are throwing everything in the book at her. She's so sick and debilitated from chemo, and it's not doing anything to get rid of her cancer.

Families always say with pride, "She's a fighter!" Even as treatments aren't working and are destroying any quality of life.