lol, you tellum, Pam! Yes, people our age, especially women, are invisible. But my mother in law never stood for it. If anyone ignored her she MADE THEM PAY. Waitresses were sent back and forth a dozen times, she decided mid-meal that she wanted to sit at a different table away from the fan...she pulled a lot of stunts and ended up getting a lot of attention. Some people don't go down quietly.