I’ve got a severely autistic grandson, a foster granddaughter who is terrorizing her kindergarden class with her behavior and a four-year-old grandson who sounds exactly like your son. So I get it! Some people will always be judgmental with little patience, understanding or insight. That’s just the way it is. But hopefully you’ll also run across people who are compassionate and kind, and understand things from the perspective of a harried mom who is doing the best she can.