It sounds like you've got reason to be proud of your sons! I agree with you on everything you've written. We've helped our kids. We helped the boys buy a house, and we helped our daughter buy some additonal farm land for her animals. I'm proud of my kids. They work hard, and they're struggling with some things I didn't have to struggle with. My daughter has adopted 3 children from social services. My middle son has a severely autistic child, and my youngest son's wife has cancer. We will help them out wherever we can!