I'm so sorry to hear this, Ryan! Jesus who loves us all so much would not want to hear about your father's exclusion and prejudice based on skin color. Turn this issue over to Him and proceed in love an faith and confidence that He who loves you beyond measure will work it out somehow in his time. In the meantime, as God works, enjoy this wonderful relationship with your beautiful fiancee and don't allow the ugliness of this world to dampen your joy and enthusiasm about getting married.