I'm 72 and wish I still looked 62! Lol. Don't pay attention to the mean online folks. Do whatever you want about the nose ring. My bladder is the source of many woes too, but now I only get up once a night to pee. Take a concoction of d mannose, a few drops of oil of oregano in water and use that to chase down a chopped garlic clover. Sounds horrible but does wonders for the bladder. Turn each day over to the Lord. then go about doing all the good you can and enjoying each day all you can. You got this, love.