I won't talk about me because I married 45 years ago. But here goes with my kids. Oldest daughter married with 2 kids and 3 more adopted from foster care. They own a great house and do it all on his school teachers salary. They buy used cars and fix them, installed their own hardwood floors, and grow or raise their own food.
My middle son married his high school girlfriend and they had 4 kids right away. She loves being a mom. But one kid is severely autistic. She stays home and he makes good money in real estate.
My youngest son got married, got divorced, remarried. They love having kids. She's a dentist and he's a PhD computer programmer so no problems financially. They have the kids in daycare and her family babysit a lot.
Do there's a rundown of some gen xers and millennials.