I don't hate her. She seems like a beautiful and smart woman. But I don't feel sorry for her, either. She's a millionaire, famous, has the world at her fingertips, healthy, and can do anything she wants. She has the ability and opportunity to use her gifts for good, if she wants. Or, she can feel sorry for herself and attribute it to racism and patriarchy. The world isn't perfect, but she's a lot better off than most.