Great read, Orren! I wish you lived in the Atlanta area so my team could have you as a guest speaker for our next Caring for Caregivers seminar. We hold them twice a year with a slate of guest speakers that always includes an elder care attorney.

On another note, I'm the younger sister but I moved my mother in with me and cared for her after she developed dementia because my sister, the elder one, is not, to say the least, a caregiver. When I asked Sis to take Mama for one day a week, she returned with Mama two hours later and said, "I can't do this!"