Gosh, I don’t know what the answer to the food thing is! You’re right, it’s something to look forward to and we can’t do without it! My aunt used to ask that old cliched question, Do you eat to live or live to eat? She lived to eat. And play bridge.
I had to google allosexual because I didn’t know what it meant, so now I’ve learned a new word. Love your writing as always.