Dick, your comments led me to view your profile page and read your lovely, heart-wrenching article about your beloved wife. You lost her too soon, as I'm sure you know! But how blessed to experience the love of your life. That doesn't happen to everyone.

My FIL adored my MIL so much that when she passed, he was beyond devastated. He eventually found a companion, a girlfriend, I guess you could say, but nothing ever would or could replace his beloved, and now I'm certain they are dancing together in heaven.

Truly, being visible or invisible is insignificant. Love and caring, those are the things that truly matter.